केटीहरुले हस्तमैथुन कसरी गर्छन् ? How does a girl masturbate? (Women's-Sexual-Activity)

[Disclaimer: I’m not a writer of this article "केटीहरुले हस्तमैथुन कसरी गर्छन् ? How do female / girl masturbate? (Women's-Sexual-Activity)." This post is based on email I received from Miss. Binita. I have made necessary correction in original email. I have changed its title to appropriate explanation. I also have changed the style of presentation to realistic form. I believe this brings more simplicity and clarity.

I am thankful to Miss. Binita for writing an article and also for liking my "sex-education" category of my blog. I believe and request to take this article as a sex-education.]

About Sex:

Meaning of sex is written in the figure below. It is a noun as well as verb.

Taking this meaning of sex into memory, lets define it in a different way. I will be focusing on biological meaning here. The word “sex” will also define to sexual-process of mastuvation. Thus, I simply define sex as a "biological need". While saying this I am remembering a friend of mine who had told me that sex can be placed in of the element of basic needs. I am not going to debate on topics like whether sex is or good or bad, under a condition of ceteris paribus.

Sex what I understand is an emotional change that time brings to any person at a certain period in his/hers' life. Curiosity teaches the rest. Now taking an example of myself, I always wanted to express my sexual desire and sexual-changes to someone, more likely to say to an opposite sex person; boy in my case. But the time was different. Now I realize it was a natural at that phase of age.

From my experience, In a long course of time I found no one to whom I could share with those changes that happen to me. It was a type of burden. I searched internet about those changes. I found answer but I was not satisfied. It was a time; I always wanted to know specific-things and their practise in practical form. Let's discuss this in more clear way, I was wonder to know that I discover sex by myself. And then the frustration followed for some days, I guess it lasted for around a week. But sincerely, I loved to practice them, I always wanted them. Finally, all those hype was broken and I made my final way to reality understand sexual activities. At last these all ended with a relif to myself. I also once curshed to know how I was born. What a dirty act! This was my first hatrated towards sex.

A first step to sex: journey of virginity.

After going through those concept I was in adolescent phase, I was always wondering, how sex would be? I was always concerned that sex was only the sexual-intercourse. Soon or late I began to know the social importance of sex. Thus making my eyes and brain towards this curiosity, I was able to find answers to these questions and finally I am clear. Hope I will also be able to make a clear explanation.

I am sure at an age around 13 or earlier it is natural to feel uneasy with increased size of breast. This signs a girl to be matured in one sense. And also girl should be more concerned to be caring about their body both physically and mentally. Here comes the time to keep a gap between many things. Answer for “sex-call” - something uneasy going through out the brain, breast turning hard or signs of wet under-wears will be answered after first menstruation. I didn’t know what exactly the boy's penis would look like? What the semen is? These are only the examples; but questions were endless. This can be sum up in a sentence that, those changes were making myself to be ready for pre-matured sex activity.

Now talking about maturation, I always had a curisoity how would boy do in their case. I always had a feeling that boy would be more satisfied during sex or self-sex as compared to female. I didn't had a proper explanation to my thoughts. But I would guess the way by how boys would be preforming self-sex. The experience is usually kept private. I earlier phase when a girl knows about sex she faces quite difficult and different emotion. There exists a vast mental pressure. She may have an ugly feeling, a hatred emotion towards sex. She may ask to herself, "Is the sex necessary?" This may lead to depression as well.

Although this indifferent feeling exists, girls overcome this emotion and find her way towards process of masturbation. Faster heart beat, firm breast and wet and watery vulvae are the changes at that time. Most of the girls discover themselves that putting fingers into a wet vagina would be fun; feeling the vibration through out the body. Itchy type feelings come there. Usually, process of masturbation is carried out by rubbing vulva, and putting a round thing like fingers or any other things.

Time may last for around 30 minutes depending upon person to person. Ejection of nasty smelling liquid flowing finally brings the process to end.